Look, We’re All Busy. So What?
It was 11:30pm last Tuesday, and I was scrolling through my phone for the 87th time that hour. I told myself I was ‘winding down,’ but honestly? I was just avoiding the fact that I hadn’t truly relaxed in about three months. Sound familiar?
I’m not sure when we collectively decided that being busy equaled being successful. Maybe it was that conference in Austin where everyone bragged about their 36-hour workweeks. (Spoiler: They were lying.)
But here’s the thing—I talked to a friend named Marcus last week, and he said something that stuck with me: ‘We’re all running on these invisible hamster wheels, thinking if we stop, everything falls apart.’ Which… yeah. Fair enough.
Why You Should Try Doing Nothing (And I Mean Literally Nothing)
I get it. The idea of doing nothing feels counterintuitive. We’ve been conditioned to fill every second with productivity. But what if I told you that doing nothing is actually a skill? And like any skill, it takes practice.
Let me tell you about my first attempt at ‘doing nothing.’ It was a Saturday morning, and I had just finished reading an article about the benefits of idleness. So, I decided to give it a shot. I sat on my couch, no phone, no TV, no book. Just me and my thoughts. And it was awful.
My brain kept screaming, ‘You should be doing something!’ I felt guilty, anxious, and completley restless. But then, something weird happened. After about 20 minutes, my mind started to wander. I thought about my childhood, my dreams, and even some random memory of a trip to the beach when I was 10. It was… nice.
I talked to a colleague named Dave about this, and he laughed. ‘You’re telling me you had to train yourself to do nothing? That’s kinda sad.’ And he’s right. It is sad. But it’s also the reality of our always-on world.
How to Start Doing Nothing (Without Feeling Guilty)
First, let’s address the elephant in the room: guilt. That little voice that says, ‘You should be working.’ Ignore it. Or better yet, tell it to shut up. You deserve a break, and no amount of work will change that.
Start small. Set aside 10 minutes a day to do nothing. No screens, no chores, no multitasking. Just sit there and breathe. It’s gonna feel weird at first, but trust me, it gets better.
And if you’re feeling extra ambitious, try a ‘digital detox.’ Put your phone in a drawer for an hour and see what happens. You might be surprised by how much you enjoy it.
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A Tangent: The Myth of Productivity
Now, I need to rant for a second. The myth that productivity equals happiness is complete BS. I mean, look at our society. We’re more connected than ever, but we’re also lonelier than ever. We’re working longer hours, but we’re less satisfied than ever. It’s a vicious cycle, and it’s time we break free.
I remember talking to my friend Sarah about this. She’s a mom of three and runs her own business. She told me, ‘I used to think I had to do it all. But then I realized, I don’t. And neither do you.’
So, let’s make a pact. Let’s agree to stop glorifying busyness. Let’s start valuing rest and relaxation as much as we value work. Because at the end of the day, we’re all human. And humans need to rest.
So go ahead, try doing nothing. You might just find that it’s the best thing you’ve done all week.
About the Author: Hi, I’m Alex. I’ve been writing about lifestyle topics for over 20 years, and I’m still figuring out how to adult. I love coffee, bad jokes, and long walks on the beach. Follow me on Twitter @AlexWritesStuff.
